About - Delicate Black Girl

Our Mission and Vision

I created Delicate Black Girl because I was done pretending that a “soft life” was a privilege you had to earn or reserve for a certain tax bracket. This space is my clapback to the pressure, the performance, and the nonsense that says Black women always have to be “on.” Here, I tell my truth and make room for us to breathe, laugh, cry, and glow — on our terms.

We’re not here to be strong all the damn time. I’m building a life that feels like peace, not just productivity. I see a future where being delicate isn’t seen as a weakness, and where Black women don’t have to fight for softness or joy. Through Delicate Black Girl, I’m rewriting the narrative.

About Me

Hey love, I’m Sabrina, the heart behind Delicate Black Girl. I’m a cozy, curious soul who keeps it real, spreads love and joy, embraces my awkward magic, and believes everyone deserves a softer, sweeter life.

My life didn’t quite unfold the way I imagined, and instead of holding on to the old dream, I’m gently building a new one, softer, slower, and more soul-filled than before.

A podcast interview planted the idea for Delicate Black Girl in my spirit years ago. I found myself, yet again, defending the softness of Black women. That conversation lit something in me. I wanted to shout it from the rooftops: Black women are delicate too. Furthermore, we deserve tenderness, luxury, and peace just because we exist.

Then came the pandemic. Life forced me to slow down, and for the first time, I truly relaxed. Therapy, long hugs with my husband, skincare routines, R&B mornings, and weekend coffee rituals on the patio all became sacred. And it made me realize: I don’t want to survive like this once in a lifetime. I want to live like this all the time.

Delicate Black Girl is my love letter to that realization. It’s a cozy corner of the internet for Black women who are soft and strong, healing and hilarious. It’s for the ones who want to swap life stories with their besties, sip something fancy in the sunshine, vibe to feel-good music, and just be. No pressure. No performance. Just peace.

In the end, I’m still learning that I don’t have to control everything. I’m choosing joy over stress. Me over the mess. And I’m inviting you to do the same … one cozy, soulful moment at a time.